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Close-up of Yoshi, a golden retriever assistance dog in a blue training vest, smiling at the camera in a Canberra park.


In this exclusive feature, Yevette Ho—founder of YoPaws and a leading voice in ethical assistance dog education—draws on her extensive work in Canberra to explore the complex, often misunderstood journey of owner-training. 

As the author of the essential guides Yoshi and Me and Assistance Dogs Beyond Tasks, Yevette provides a rare, grounded look at why this challenging path is, for many, the only accessible way to independence.

portrait of Canberra assistance dog expert Yevette Ho smiling, standing with her golden retriever Yoshi in a native Australian park setting.
For many people with disabilities, assistance dogs can mean the difference between coping and not coping. These dogs perform trained tasks that help mitigate the impact of a person’s disability, supporting greater independence, confidence, and participation in the community.

However, accessing a fully trained assistance dog through traditional programs is not always possible. Waiting lists can stretch for years, eligibility criteria can be restrictive, and the cost of obtaining a trained dog can place them out of reach for many people.


As a result, an increasing number of individuals are exploring another pathway: owner-training their own assistance dogs. Owner-training an assistance dog is often misunderstood. To outsiders it may appear informal or unstructured, but the reality is far more complex.


Beyond Obedience: A Legal & Ethical Pathway

In Australia, owner-trained assistance dogs are legally recognised under the Disability Discrimination Act 1992. Despite growing interest in this pathway, few people understand what the journey truly involves.

Developing an assistance dog is not simply a matter of teaching obedience. It is a long and demanding process that requires careful research, thoughtful dog selection, ethical training practices, and a deep commitment to both handler and dog welfare. Behind every successful partnership lies months, often years, of preparation, uncertainty, setbacks, and perseverance.

The Search for the "One in a Million"

One of the least visible parts of the owner-training journey begins long before a puppy ever arrives home. Many prospective handlers spend months, sometimes years, researching breeds, temperaments, breeders, and training approaches. They speak to trainers, read extensively, watch educational material, and try to understand what makes a dog suitable for assistance work.

The challenge is that assistance dogs require a rare combination of traits. A successful assistance dog must demonstrate emotional stability, resilience in unfamiliar environments, low reactivity to distractions, strong engagement with their handler, and a willingness to learn complex behaviours. 

Even within breeds commonly used for assistance work, not every dog will possess these qualities.

Golden retriever assistance dog Yoshi standing confidently on a blue picnic table during an environmental stability training session.


Traditional assistance dog organisations often manage this challenge through structured breeding programs developed over many years. These programs focus on carefully selected genetics, proven temperament lines, and large numbers of puppies. Organisations also have the capacity to evaluate entire litters and redirect dogs that are not suited for assistance work into other roles or homes.

Owner-trainers rarely have that luxury. Instead, most owner-trainers have only one opportunity to select a suitable puppy. They must rely on the information available to them from breeders or previous owners, often without fully knowing the long-term behavioural history or genetic influences behind the dog.

For owner-trainers, selecting a dog becomes a careful balancing act between genetics, temperament, and the handler’s own needs. Some seek guidance from experienced trainers or behaviour professionals before selecting a puppy.

Others consult breeders who prioritise health and temperament testing. Some wait months for the right litter, hoping to increase their chances of finding a suitable candidate. These steps cannot guarantee outcomes, but they can help reduce some of the uncertainty involved in selecting a suitable prospect.

"A puppy that appears confident and promising at eight weeks of age may develop sensitivities during adolescence... the outcome is never guaranteed."

Even with careful preparation, however, the outcome is never guaranteed. Dogs are individuals. A puppy that appears confident and promising at eight weeks of age may develop sensitivities during adolescence. Environmental factors, genetic influences, health conditions, or unexpected behavioural traits can emerge as the dog matures.

Many owner-trainers experience this uncertainty first-hand. A dog that appears well suited early on may later require adjustments to the training pathway or, in some cases, a complete change in direction. For owner-trainers, this uncertainty can be one of the most emotionally difficult aspects of the journey. Unlike large training programs that work with many dogs at once, owner-trainers often invest their hopes, time, and resources into a single dog. When challenges arise, the stakes can feel deeply personal.

When Things Do Not Go as Planned

One reality that is rarely discussed openly is that not every dog will succeed as an assistance dog, even when everything is done correctly. Even when handlers research carefully, choose a promising puppy, and invest significant time and effort into training, the dog may still not be suited to the demands of assistance work.

Golden retriever assistance dog Yoshi sits calmly in his training vest at a supermarket self-checkout, demonstrating public access skills.

Some dogs struggle with busy public environments. Others may develop health concerns or show signs of stress that suggest the role is not right for them. For owner-trainers who have invested time, resources, and emotional energy into their dog, facing this possibility can be deeply difficult.

Responsible training, however, always places the welfare of the dog first. Ethical trainers and handlers understand that assistance work should never be forced. The goal is not to make a dog perform a role at any cost, but to determine whether the dog genuinely thrives in that work and environment.

Sometimes the most responsible decision is to step away from the assistance pathway and allow the dog to live simply as a loved companion. These quieter stories of setbacks and difficult choices are rarely visible to the public, yet they are an important part of the reality behind responsible assistance dog development.

The Complexity of Training

For dogs that continue along the assistance pathway, the training process is extensive. Training does not begin with specialised tasks. The early stages focus on building a strong relationship between handler and dog while developing the emotional stability and engagement needed for the dog to navigate the human world calmly.

Early development often includes:

Yoshi the assistance dog sitting calmly in front of a rack of colourful kettlebells and gym equipment.


✔️ Socialisation to a wide range of environments

✔️ Exposure to public settings such as shops and transport

✔️ Remaining calm around people, food, and other animals

✔️ Loose lead walking and consistent handler focus

✔️ Settling quietly in public places

These skills form the foundation of public access behaviour.

Public access refers to a dog’s ability to accompany their handler into public places under the Disability Discrimination Act 1992, while remaining calm, well controlled, and effectively invisible within the environment.

Only once these foundations are reliable does task training become a greater focus. Depending on the handler’s disability, tasks may include retrieving dropped items, interrupting anxiety episodes, guiding a handler through crowded environments, or assisting with mobility related needs. 

Regardless of the task, reliability and emotional stability remain the most important qualities of a working assistance dog.

⚠️ A marathon, not a sprint: Training can take one to three years before a dog is considered reliable in public access environments. 

Even after this stage, learning continues throughout the dog’s working life as the partnership between handler and dog develops over time.

The Information Gap

Although the owner-training pathway is legally recognised, many handlers face a significant challenge. Access to clear and reliable guidance can be limited. Unlike structured organisational programs, owner-trainers often begin their journey with little information about dog selection, training development, public access preparation, or legal expectations.

The information available can be inconsistent or difficult to apply to an individual situation. For people already managing disability or health challenges, navigating this fragmented landscape can feel overwhelming. Finding professionals who understand the complexities of owner-trained assistance dog teams can also be difficult. 

As a result, many owner-trainers begin the journey feeling uncertain and unsupported while making decisions that can significantly impact the success or welfare of their dog.

Golden retriever assistance dog Yoshi rests calmly on a slatted park bench, looking out over a river on a sunny Canberra day.



Case Study: Progress Is Not Linear

This example reflects a common but often unspoken reality within owner-trained assistance dog journeys.

The dog was sourced from a breeder whose claims later proved unreliable, leaving aspects of genetic background uncertain. Over time, the team also navigated ongoing health challenges including allergies, skin issues, and a highly sensitive digestive system that periodically affected the dog’s wellbeing.

During these periods, training was intentionally paused. It would not be ethical to expect the dog to work while unwell, so the focus shifted to rest, recovery, and overall support.

The team also experienced a traumatic public incident involving assault. Experiences like this can affect both the handler and the dog, and recovery is not immediate. It requires time, adjustment, and a willingness to step back from expectations.

As a result, progress did not follow a straight line. There were periods of improvement, followed by setbacks, pauses, and necessary recalibration based on the dog’s needs. Rather than rushing toward formal assessment, the handler chose to prioritise long-term sustainability. The dog continues to work under a training status rather than full accreditation, yet has already had a meaningful impact on daily life.

This highlights an important reality: assistance dog development is rarely predictable. Progress is not defined by fixed timelines, but by the ability of the team to adapt, prioritise welfare, and continue moving forward in a sustainable way.

A Partnership Built Over Time

Despite the challenges involved, owner-training can lead to deeply meaningful partnerships between handlers and their dogs. Unlike traditional programs where dogs are matched with handlers later in the training process, owner-trained teams often grow and learn together from the beginning. The journey becomes one of shared development, where both dog and human gradually learn how to work with and understand each other.

Golden retriever assistance dog Yoshi lies calmly under a marble cafe table next to teal chairs, demonstrating a perfect settle while a croissant and coffee sit untouched above.
An assistance dog team is never just the dog or the handler alone. The strength of the partnership comes from the relationship between the two. Both are constantly learning, adapting, and adjusting to each other’s needs. 

Handlers learn to read their dog’s signals, understand their strengths and limits, and provide guidance in complex environments. 

At the same time, the dog learns how to interpret the handler’s cues, navigate the human world, and respond in ways that provide meaningful support.


Over time, this mutual understanding becomes the foundation of the team. Success rarely comes from a single training method or quick solution. It develops through months and years of consistent work, careful observation, and thoughtful decision making. 

When approached with care and respect for both partners, the result is not simply a trained dog; it is a team that learns how to cope, adapt, and ultimately thrive together.

Looking Ahead

As awareness of assistance dogs continues to grow in Australia, interest in owner-training is likely to increase. For many people with disabilities, this pathway offers a possibility that may otherwise be inaccessible through traditional programs.

The future of owner-trained assistance dogs will depend on continued education, ethical training practices, and greater access to reliable information. 

Responsible owner-training is not about shortcuts or bypassing professional standards. 

It requires careful preparation, strong foundations in dog behaviour and welfare, and realistic expectations about the challenges involved.

Owner-training is not the easy path. For many disabled people, however, it is the only accessible path. With the right knowledge, support, and ethical training practices, these partnerships can change lives.


About the Author 

Yevette Ho is the founder of YoPaws, an assistance dog training and education service based in Canberra, Australia. She supports owner-trained assistance dog teams and people exploring the assistance dog pathway through ethical, welfare-focused training and practical guidance. Yevette is also the author of the widely-regarded books Yoshi and Me and Assistance Dogs Beyond Tasks.

Connect with Yevette & YoPaws:

Two books by Yevette Ho, 'Yoshi and Me' and 'Assistance Dogs Beyond Tasks,' displayed on a stone surface with a YoPaws training brochure and business card.


A Savour-Life volunteer and an adopter interact with a black rescue dog at a Petbarn Foundation community adoption event.
Small acts of connection lead to big milestones: Petbarn Foundation and Savour-Life celebrate 90,000 pets rehomed.


Ninety Thousand Second Chances: A Milestone for Australian Rescue

The Petbarn Foundation has reached a significant landmark in its mission to support the nation’s animal welfare sector, announcing that more than 90,000 rescue pets have been rehomed through its programs over the past five years. This figure represents an average of 50 animals every day finding safety, care, and a pathway to a permanent home.

The milestone arrives at a critical time for the Australian rescue community. Recent data suggests that while the desire for companionship remains high, misconceptions continue to hinder adoption rates. 

Proprietary research from the Foundation indicates that 66 per cent of Australians still perceive rescue pets as being "hard work" or temperamentally difficult—a sentiment the latest "Rescue Mission" campaign has sought to challenge.

To lead this cultural shift, the Foundation appointed 2026 Young Australian of the Year, Nedd Brockmann, and his rescue dog, Dougie, as Chief Rescue Officers. Their partnership highlights a growing movement that reframes rescue dogs not as burdens, but as ideal, high-performance companions for active Australians.

Beyond the Statistics: Kadar and Pockets

While the numerical data is impressive, the true impact of the Foundation’s work is best understood through the individual lives transformed.

A resilient rescue dog named Kadar lounging in a hoodie while recovering from mange and eye surgery, illustrating his second chance at life.
Kadar enjoying his new life after
 being rescued and treated by DM Rescue
Kadar’s journey is a poignant reminder of why the rescue mission is so vital. Found wandering the streets alone and in significant pain, the young dog was battling a severe case of mange and an eye injury so advanced it required urgent, specialised surgery.

The road to recovery was neither short nor inexpensive, with medical costs exceeding $3,000. It was the team at DM Rescue who took him in, providing the intensive care and specialised surgery needed to finally free him from pain. 

In a fitting tribute to his journey, his name means "second chance"—and thanks to the support of the Petbarn Foundation, he truly received one.

After months of nursing him back to health, Kadar’s foster family realised they couldn't part with him, officially making him a "foster fail" and providing the permanent, loving home he had been waiting for.

Similarly, Pockets’ journey highlights the profound rehabilitation that a safe environment provides. Rescued from a situation of extreme neglect, Pockets was found underweight and sleeping on a pile of rubbish. Despite this traumatic history, her gentle nature remained intact. 

Through a nurturing foster placement supported by the Foundation, she has transitioned from a neglected stray to an affectionate companion who has mastered the routines of domestic life.

A joyful, smiling rescue dog named Pockets sitting on green grass, showing her incredible transformation from a neglected stray to a happy companion.



Supporting a Stretched Sector

Since its inception in 2012, the Petbarn Foundation has donated more than $34 million to provide critical support to animal welfare programs. This includes $16 million in direct donations to Australian rescue shelters and national bodies such as the RSPCA.

Furthermore, a dedicated partnership with with the SavourLife pet adoption platform has seen more than 3,500 dogs find their forever homes since 2021 alone.

Janelle Miller, Petbarn Foundation Manager, notes that these achievements belong to the broader community.

"Behind every rescue pet is a community of people who care," Ms Miller said. 

"Rescue groups across Australia are doing incredible work under immense pressure. It is the kindness of everyday Australians—those adopting, fostering, and volunteering—that helps turn these second chances into new beginnings."

As the cost-of-living crisis continues to place unprecedented strain on shelters, with surrenders increasing and donations in decline, the Foundation’s 90,000-pet milestone serves as a vital reminder of the power of collective action.

Support the Next Second Chance

Official Petbarn Foundation donation banner featuring a yellow lab puppy in a service vest and a 'Donate Now' button to support animal welfare.


The work of the Petbarn Foundation relies on the collective support of the Australian community. Whether through a donation at the checkout, volunteering time at a local shelter, or considering adoption for your next companion, every action contributes to the sustainability of our national rescue sector.

To learn more about the Foundation’s ongoing programs, or to see how you can support rescue organisations in your own community, visit the Petbarn Foundation official website

Official creative for the 2026 RSPCA Pet of the Year Awards featuring a tabby cat and a black and tan dog.


Is Your Dog the 2026 RSPCA Pet of the Year? Enter the $25k Pet Prize Pool!

Australia’s most heart-warming showdown is officially underway. The 2026 RSPCA Pet of the Year Awards are now open, inviting pet parents across New South Wales and Victoria to celebrate the companions who bring "joy, comfort, and unconditional love" to our lives.

Whether it’s the dog who greets you at the door, the cat who claims your keyboard, or the rescue who changed your world, this competition is a chance to put your pet in the spotlight while raising vital funds for animals in need.

More Than Just a Beauty Pageant 

With over $25,000 in prizes across 6 categories on the line, the stakes are high. While the cute factor is undeniable, this is a community-led fundraiser. Every dollar raised through voting goes directly to RSPCA NSW and RSPCA Victoria to help rescue, rehabilitate, and rehome vulnerable animals.

A Category for Every Companion

The RSPCA has expanded the awards this year to ensure every "little legend" has a place to shine:

  • Cutest Dog: For the pooches with the best head-tilt or heart-melting smile.

  • Cutest Cat: For the felines who rule the household.

  • Best Rescue: Celebrating any pet—from dogs to ducks—that has found its "forever home" through a shelter or rescue group.

  • Adorable Others: A dedicated space for bunnies, guinea pigs, birds, and quirky companions.

  • 2x Influencer Categories: Specifically for those pets who already have a social media following. These categories feature "money-can't-buy" experiences, including professional content opportunities and exclusive brand partnerships.

A vibrant animal collage for the 2026 RSPCA Pet of the Year awards, showcasing a dog, cat, miniature horse, and a domestic rabbit.



How to Enter & Win:
 

Winning isn’t just about the best photo; it’s about rallies and community spirit.

  1. Enter: Upload your favourite snaps to petoftheyearawards.com.au before 13 April.

  2. Vote: Public voting opens on 15 April. While you can seek donations to boost your pet’s tally, there is one free vote available per entry every single day. 

  3. Advance: Entries will progress through multiple rounds, culminating in the crowning of a winner for each category.

“This campaign is an amazing opportunity to come together, watch the cuteness unfold, and help the RSPCA support thousands of animals who deserve a second chance,” says Ben Wilheim, Community Fundraising Manager of RSPCA NSW.

Important Dates:

  • Entries Close: 13 April 2026

  • Voting Opens: 15 April 2026

  • Winners Announced: Late April 2026

NSW vet nurse Helen Spry with a local dog in Vanuatu during a Vets Beyond Borders volunteer mission.


NSW Vet Nurse’s 12th Mission: Leading the Charge for Papua New Guinea’s Pups

While most Australians spend their holidays relaxing, Inverell-based veterinary nurse Helen Spry is preparing for her 12th international deployment. 

This April, she’ll be part of a historic six-person Australian team heading to Papua New Guinea (PNG)—the first-ever mission to the region by the charity Vets Beyond Borders (VBB).

The mission marks a critical milestone in Pacific animal welfare, targeting a region where veterinary care is often a rare luxury rather than a standard service. For Helen, it is the culmination of years of "boots on the ground" dedication to animals in some of the world's most remote corners.

NSW vet nurse Helen Spry assisting in a surgery clinic on Taveuni Island, Fiji, with Vets Beyond Borders.
Expertise in action: Helen Spry during a 2025 deployment to Taveuni, Fiji. Her experience in remote surgical clinics is vital for the upcoming PNG mission.




A Passport of Compassion 

The upcoming PNG mission is just the latest stamp in a well-travelled passport. Helen has now completed 13 overseas volunteer trips—11 of those with VBB’s VetMatch program. 

NSW vet nurse Helen Spry, winner of the Buddy Giving Program Volunteer Excellence Award, holding a Jack Russell puppy.

Her journey has taken her from the sandy shores of the Cook Islands (three times) and the tropical heat of Fiji and Vanuatu, to the rugged landscapes of Sardinia, Nauru, and even the remote reaches of Thursday Island.

In recognition of this staggering 12th deployment with VBB, Helen was recently named the inaugural recipient of the Buddy Giving Program Volunteer Excellence Award.

“The work I do with VBB makes a difference; it’s a privilege to be part of it,” Helen says. 

“To be able to help animals in remote places and show communities how to care for them is incredibly rewarding.”

Breaking the Cycle of Suffering 

In many remote Pacific communities, the lack of veterinary services creates a heart-breaking cycle. Without humane population management, unmanaged dog populations lead to preventable disease and neglect.

“Regular desexing and animal health clinics are vital,” Helen explains. 

“Without them, female dogs can have litter after litter, leading to rapid population growth in communities with limited access. Many puppies won’t survive, and those that do often face disease and injury. It’s a terrible life.”

NSW vet nurse Helen Spry administering medical treatment to a puppy during a Vets Beyond Borders mission in Taveuni, Fiji.
On-the-ground care: Beyond surgery, the team treats preventable diseases and injuries. Pictured: Helen Spry in Taveuni, Fiji (December 2025), ahead of her inaugural PNG mission.


The mission in PNG isn't just about the animals; it’s about the people. By working alongside the RSPCA of PNG for two weeks, the team will provide essential treatments and community education

As Helen notes, "healthier animals mean happier animals and happier communities." Managing these populations is the single most effective way to improve both animal welfare and public health in developing regions.

An "All-Aussie" Effort 

The expansion of the VetMatch program into PNG is a true nationwide collaboration, made possible through the Buddy Giving Program, supported by Buddy Pet Insurance. This partnership ensures that experienced professionals can deliver care exactly where it is most needed.

Joining Helen on this landmark mission is a powerhouse team of Australian volunteers:

  • Veterinarians: Dr Helen Todd (Dee Why, NSW), Dr Helen Purdam (Canberra, ACT), and Dr Corinne Lendon (Ferny Grove, QLD).

  • Vet Nurses: Nikki Hohmuth (Canberra, ACT) and Ruby Swanston (Erina, NSW).

“To be part of VBB’s inaugural PNG deployment is incredibly special,” Helen says. 

“Seeing animals and people learning together brings me enormous joy. I can’t stop smiling.”

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Vets Beyond Borders Help Animals in the Torres Strait In 2021, VBB launched their VetMatch-AU program to bring much-needed veterinary care to remote communities closer to home. Read about their first missions to Thursday Island.


About Vets Beyond Borders (VBB)

Established in 2003, Vets Beyond Borders is an Australian-based charity dedicated to improving the lives of animals and their communities across the Asia-Pacific. Through their VetMatch program, they deploy skilled volunteer veterinarians and nurses to regions with limited access to care, focusing on humane population management and life-saving medical treatments.

In Australia, their AVERT (Australian Veterinary Emergency Response Team) program provides critical veterinary support during natural disasters and biosecurity outbreaks.

How to Support the Mission: To learn more about the inaugural PNG mission or to support VBB’s work across the Pacific, visit their website or follow the journey of volunteers like Helen on social media.

Black and white emotional portrait of a woman embracing her senior dog, by Melbourne pet photographer Bree Ruby.


Forever, My Soul Pet: Melbourne Photographer Captures the Legacy of Our Constant Companions

For those who have ever shared their life with a "once-in-a-lifetime" dog, the bond often defies words. It is this profound connection that Melbourne pet photographer and former veterinary nurse Bree Colenso is seeking to document in her latest project, Forever, My Soul Pet.

"A soul pet is the one that changes you—the one who somehow understands you. And when they’re gone, they don’t just leave a space, they leave a presence that stays with you."

Following the success of her 2026 Senior Dog Calendar and her festive Christmas pampering sessions, Bree—who is Melbourne’s only specialist senior and end-of-life pet photographer—is expanding her tribute to the human-animal bond. 

This new project will culminate in a limited-edition coffee table book featuring just 30 pets, each captured through a lens of deep empathy and shared history.

A Perspective Shaped by the Clinic 

This isn’t Bree’s first time navigating the tender intersection of love and loss. As we profiled last year, Bree spent over a decade as a veterinary nurse, including a significant tenure in oncology. In that space, she witnessed the extraordinary lengths owners go to for their pets—from chemotherapy to interstate travel for radiation—driven by a devotion that many never get to see.

“You see a level of devotion that most people never witness,” Bree says. “What stayed with me wasn’t just the loss, it was the love behind it. The way people show up every single day changes how you see that bond.”

What defines a ‘Soul Pet’? 

While Bree is known for creating joyful, high-end experiences for Melbourne’s pampered pups—like her Paws & Prosecco events—this book dives deeper into the quiet, everyday moments of "soul pets." These are the companions who are there through every season of life, acting as a constant source of comfort and understanding.

Because these bonds are often formed in the quietest moments, the photography sessions for the book are intentionally unhurried. Whether it’s a favourite bed in the sun or a hand resting gently on a greying muzzle, Bree’s goal is to capture the "presence" of the pet rather than a perfect pose. 

“Sometimes we meet them exactly where they are—a quiet lounge room or a backyard they’ve spent years in,” she explains.

Close-up black and white photo of a person's hand holding a senior dog's paw, representing the bond in pet memorial photography.
“Sometimes, the most powerful stories are told through the quietest connections.” — Bree Ruby Photography is seeking 30 Melbourne pets to feature in her ‘Forever, My Soul Pet’ legacy book.




 
“These sessions require presence. You’re not just taking photos; you’re holding space for people and their experience. That’s not something I ever want to rush.”

A Tangible Memory

For Bree, the final step of this unhurried process is creating something physical. With only 30 spots available, the book aims to be more than a collection of portraits; it is designed as a physical legacy for owners to hold onto.

"Grief doesn't go away," says Bree. "But having a physical book, filled with stories and memories, gives pet parents a way to honour that life forever."

Get Involved 

Melbourne pet owners who feel their companion is a true "soul pet" are invited to apply for inclusion. 

For more information on how to feature your pet in the book, visit Bree Ruby Photography or follow her journey on Instagram @bree_ruby_photography.

Molly Townsend’s lilac Border Collie puppy, Fox, exploring autumn leaves during a training session focused on real-world readiness.





As we continue our International Puppy Day series, we know this time often brings excitement and new beginnings—but as we explored in [Part 1 with Sarah Rutten], it can also bring its fair share of overwhelm.

When people bring a puppy home, the first thing they usually think about is obedience—what should I teach first? 

However, Pat Wright and Molly Townsend, founders of Flying Paws Dog Training and winners of the 2025 Australian Small Business Champion Award, believe the better question is this: “How do I raise a dog who can actually cope with the world?”

While we have traditionally focused on cues like sit, stay, drop and heel, Pat and Molly argue that those are only one small piece of the picture. What really matters in the early stages is what sits underneath: play, engagement, emotional regulation, and everyday life skills.

At Flying Paws, this is referred to as real-world readiness. It’s about raising a dog who doesn't just respond when asked, but a dog who feels safe, confident, and able to move through the world without falling apart. When you get that right, you don’t just end up with an obedient dog—you end up with a resilient one.


The Foundations: Play and Engagement

Play is often treated as something separate from training—a break, a reward, or a way to burn energy. But for puppies, play is where most of the learning actually happens. Through play, they test boundaries, make mistakes, and figure out how their behaviour affects the world around them.

More importantly, it builds the relationship. When a puppy learns that being with you is fun, safe, and worth paying attention to, you become important to them. Not because you have food, but because you matter.

A profile shot of a lilac and white Border Collie puppy looking up attentively, illustrating the concept of engagement before obedience in dog training.

That connection is what carries through into real life. It is what helps with recall, focus, and staying connected when things get busy. Before worrying about longer stays or perfect recalls, it is worth asking:

  • Does my puppy actually enjoy interacting with me?

  • Can they settle near me without needing constant input?

  • Do they recover quickly if something startles or excites them?

  • Do they choose to come back to me on their own?


Building Life Skills for the Real World

Most challenges that show up later in a dog's life aren't because they "forgot" how to sit; they come from gaps in everyday emotional skills. Real-world readiness is built through:

  • Settling: The ability to relax in different environments and "switch off" after excitement. This is a skill that must be taught and practised.

  • Handling and Cooperative Care: Getting your puppy comfortable being touched or examined. Giving the puppy a "say" in the process makes vet and groomer visits much easier later on. [Read our full guide on training your pup for grooming here].

A Cocker Spaniel puppy having its paw gently washed in a bath, illustrating successful handling and cooperative care training.
  • Recall Foundations: Recall isn't built at the beach; it starts in low-pressure environments where coming back is always the best option.

  • Emotional Regulation: Can your puppy notice something exciting without reacting immediately? Dogs who learn to process frustration early cope much better as life becomes more complex.


The Power of Choice and Consent

One of the biggest shifts in modern training is understanding that giving dogs a level of choice actually improves outcomes. This doesn’t mean letting them do whatever they want; it means allowing them to be part of the process.

It can be as simple as:

  • Letting them approach a new person instead of being passed around.

  • Giving them the option to move away during handling.

  • Noticing when they are unsure and adjusting instead of pushing through.

Dogs who feel heard tend to become more confident. They learn the world is predictable and that they can take in information without being overwhelmed.


Thoughtful Exposure Over "Socialisation"


A lilac Border Collie puppy with a leaf in its mouth lying on a moss-covered rock, illustrating thoughtful exposure and engagement as part of real-world readiness.


The early months matter, but "more" exposure is not always better. Rushing a puppy into every situation can actually cause anxiety. What helps is thoughtful exposure:

  • Letting them watch from a distance before they join in.

  • Giving them space when they need it.

  • Building things up gradually instead of all at once.

A puppy sitting at a distance, calmly taking in a busy environment, is learning far more than one who is overwhelmed in the middle of it. Real-world readiness develops through experiences the puppy can actually process.


Practical Habits to Start at Home

Building resilience doesn't need to be complicated. It comes down to small, consistent habits:

✔️ Reward Engagement: Notice and reward when your puppy checks in with you voluntarily.

✔️ Use the Environment: Scatter food in the grass. Sniffing helps puppies slow down and feel more settled.
A yellow Labrador puppy sniffing white flowers outdoors, demonstrating how using the environment helps puppies regulate.

✔️ Pause Before Excitement: Wait for a moment of calm before throwing a toy or opening a door. This teaches regulation over reaction.

✔️ Prioritise Rest: After something exciting, help your puppy switch off. This is the piece that most often gets missed.


The Bigger Picture: Cooperation Over Compliance

A lot of new puppy owners feel like they are "behind," especially with social media showing very young puppies performing polished behaviours. But development is not a race.

The real test is not how a puppy looks at sixteen weeks—it is how they handle life at sixteen months. Adolescence tends to highlight whatever was built early on. Dogs with real-world readiness cope better, recover faster, and stay more connected to their humans.

Raising a puppy is not about creating a dog who listens perfectly; it is about raising a dog who can live in the world comfortably. When we focus on play, engagement, and life skills, we aren’t lowering the standard—we are raising it. Because the goal isn’t just compliance; it is cooperation.

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About the Authors

Pat Wright and Molly Townsend are the founders of Flying Paws Dog Training in Tasmania and winners of the 2025 Australian Small Business Champion Award (Pet Training Services).

With a combined 30 years of experience, they are Tasmania's first certified Family Dog Mediators®, specialising in positive, force-free, and fear-free training. Pat founded Flying Paws in 2014, while Molly joined the team in 2018; together, they focus on "real-world readiness" to help dogs and families build resilient, emotionally stable relationships.

They are also the voices behind the podcast The Paws Perspective, sharing modern insights into canine behaviour.

Flying Paws trainers Pat Wright and Molly Townsend sitting in a forest with two Border Collies and a Maremma Sheepdog, showcasing their expertise in service and therapy dog training.

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